Bahu

 

It always happens in almost every family irrespective of the fact regarding their different cultures, different languages, different tastes, and preferences.

 Plus it is also important if they belong from the same country and also in another foreign country. 

Let me take an example of a country like India where it is happening at a faster rate as of present.

 When compared with those golden times where there was no such divide that had taken place.

 It can also be stated that in that era everything was so sweet and simple but as time flew away there are a lot of problems which took place between both of them. 

This happened because slower restrictions were playing a role in terms of traditions as well as moral values which must be applied no matter what you are doing at a particular time.

 I have witnessed many bahus who have lost this title of giving respect to elders as well as loving the juniors in the family.

 Having a modern bahu misleads to dropping of even single respect for her mother in law who has had done her duties in her tenure and yet will also be doing it shortly or in the far future. 

Even newlywed bahus are so much demanding as well as rude in their approach towards life and even they are blinded by the so-called beliefs they have for others.

 It all starts with not having a lot of education but education must be enough to understand these commonly discovered problems which later may result in the form of struggling the rest of life in tension as well as fear. 

Fear can be like what if she does something in a very wrong way and which will eventually put a bad impression on the family.

So it is best to have a stable and I will not say that almost twice the size of two seats here but inherited parenting must be such that later on in life she goes ahead.

It may take a while but she must discuss within her inner spirit this question in terms of monetary expenditure.

 As it should be cut down and only be used at a time where there is a question or even an answer of spending on essential goods only and not spending aggressively.

 Here aggressive manner is referred to as throwing away hard-earned money of their family every day on not so much useful resources like buying different clothes as well as unnecessary kinds of stuff.

 Even when it comes to a very uneducated Bahu then that is always disastrous in the long run as they may have a brain as everyone else has but their approach would be somewhat in a very wrong direction.

 This will also bring in lots of health diseases as someone who cannot even cook properly in her house can never become the master of the kitchen.

 It is not only limited to the kitchen but when I am mentioning cooking food properly then I am also stressing the fact in terms of hygiene.

 As a food that is harmful to the stomach in that family can never rise to the goal of earning as well as saving money in the long term because savings cannot take place in such a scenario where after every few days, the family would be requiring a doctor but even a doctor can only recommend medicines.

 But buying those medicines will have absolutely no meaning when expenditure is more than your earnings. 

Well, the main problem in the family is basically because of those so-called bahus who sit on the couch all day and give orders to everyone around in a not so much pleasing manner.

 As It is considered as a rude manner and somewhat not so friendly also. It will take more than reaching on top of the Himalayan mountain to find a bahu with family traditions and who can take all the load of the family on her shoulders and keep moving with it until it is completed.

 Nowadays it gets kind of risky to find an ideal bahu for her family.

 The present scenario is quite disgusting and living in such an area where there is junk all over in the minds of Modern Bahus is very depressing.

 Instead of contributing it is getting more and more degenerating itself from existence.

 That is why I keep insisting on the fact of wholesome grounding and having basic knowledge about the world.

This is a must in fulfilling the qualities of an ideal bahu. Well, it is quite obvious that fetching someone with these many qualities would not be an easy task at all.

 " There must be an equilibrium between bahus and their mother-in-laws " it is so much easy to say this and even write rather than seeing such a thing as a blessing in disguise.

 Nowadays many bahus are into all types of wrong habits and family members cannot even say a thing to her as they know the true nature of her personality and which will never change unless she realizes herself.

But she can at least make a move before it gets too late.

 Sometimes if you do not react then the situation kinds of gets out of your hands. 

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And that power is what I needed or I can say that strength to write even beyond the night sky.

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