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 Parenting : Distance Between Bonds

Parenting is an important aspect that plays an important role in our daily lives. It is a huge responsibility so be cautious enough to handle such an important task as it requires lot of hard work and lots of experience and wisdom are also required in fulfilling this duty. It even requires training the personality of the mind as well as that of the body in such a way that future generations also continue to follow this trend. It requires skills that must be implemented upon a boy and a girl who so ever is their in the family  , particularly younger generations need parenting as they lack sense of 1) good vs bad  , 2) Knowledge about the world  , 3) Education  , 4) Traditional values  , 5) Self Discipline  , 6) Communication  , 7) Value of money . Parents should give unconditional love to their Kids but at a certain limit as it often happens that kids do get spoiled in their younger age because of so much love. Next we will should reward the child if he/she does any kind of good improvement be it in any kind of field that can be like if he is doing his homework on time , scoring good marks in school , doing a great job helping parents at home , showing rapid improvement in the field of plays at school plus also in extra curricular activities and at the same time be given punishment for his own good so that he becomes a better person in future. Punishments are necessary in everyone child ' s life as he or she may gain knowledge from mistakes committed. Education is something that is very important as it is considered one of the survival means for anyone in this world as without education in life of kids they will not be in a proper way take independent decisions and may always rely on others for help even for earning for his or her family. Education is must as it also envelops sense of maturity as well to do each and every aspect the right way and not develop any uncertain bad habits. Parents must also take into account that they must show value of money as to how to save money for future expenses as well as on how to earn money plus Communication is a barrier for many kids as they never ever reach that goal in life where they can use communication as a skill and as a weapon to argue in a debate and in general also it is very important skill to survive in this world. It is not a day ' s job in implementing such skills as it can take up to lots of years for such things to develop in a child. Self Discipline is some thing that is necessary as it keeps not even the mental health fresh but also the physical body also fresh and boosting with high energy to be able to perform day to day tasks as a child evolves in his or her tenure. It requires lots of sacrifices as being a parent is not an easy task . There is one more task that I have missed in this article that needs attention and that is respecting elders as this is one major trait that is missing  in today ' s times.


“ THE CORONA PANDEMIC HAS TORNED THE WORLD THAT DISTANCE EDUCATION IS THE NEED OF THE HOUR , RELEVANT AND WILL BE VOGUE IN TIMES TO COME. “  

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